Robert James Shea Jr., Chief Warrant Officer Three, US Army Retired, passed away unexpectedly but peacefully Sunday, April 6, 2025 in his Virginia Beach home. Born May 31, 1952, in Springfield, MA, Bob attended local Cathedral High School and later graduated from Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University.
Bob is predeceased by his parents, Robert and Katherine Shea, son, Patrick J. Shea, brother, Michael Shea and aunt, Catharine Shea. Bob is survived by his wife of nearly 36-years, Margaret (Meg) Gordon, daughters, Maighdlin Kohne (Mike), Meredith Shea, and two granddaughters, Maeve and Adella Kohne. Bob’s extended family includes brothers and sisters, Margaret Ann Shea (Tim McCarthy), James Shea (Kim), Brendan Shea (Diane), his Irish twin, Maura Ollari, Katie Shea, Dierdre Tougias (Dave), Nona Fenton (Paul) and Teresa Brown (Todd), a platoon of nieces and nephews, and a squad of grand-nieces and nephews.
Bob retired from the US Army with nearly 26 years of service and was proud to be one of the last Vietnam Era draftees actively serving. Bob’s military accomplishments included earning his Senior Aviator Wings as first a UH-1 Huey and later UH-60 Black Hawk pilot. Bob was selected over many to become an instructor pilot and instrument flight examiner, and earned his US and German Airborne wings. Bob was especially proud of his service with the 160th Special Operations Aviation Regiment “Night Stalkers.”
Bob’s family was his anchor and greatest pride. Bob was known for his quick wit, kindness, sweet tooth, love of lobster rolls, and his unwavering loyalty to the New York Yankees and New England Patriots.
Bob’s legacy is one of love, dedication, and a life lived to the fullest. Though we grieve his passing, his family, Army buddies, and friends are comforted by the many happy and often incredibly funny indelible marks he made on our lives.
In lieu of flowers, living plants are welcome as a lasting memory but unnecessary.
