Dorothy “Grandma Dot” Fahey, a beacon of love and generosity, was born on April 20, 1929, in Everett, WA, and passed away peacefully at the age of 97 on September 28, 2026, in Newport News, VA.
Throughout her remarkable life, Dot exemplified the spirit of devotion and kindness. As an Army wife for over 30 years, she embraced the challenges and joys that came with supporting her beloved husband, James Fahey, while nurturing a loving home. Her role as a homemaker was her canvas, where she painted her world with compassion and care.
Dot was passionate about reading and had a gift for arts and crafts. She lovingly crafted countless dish cloths and cross-stitched treasures that she lovingly gifted to friends, spreading warmth and joy to those around her. Known for her generous spirit, she touched many lives with her thoughtful gifts and kind heart.
An active member of the NCO Wives Club and the VFW Auxiliary, Dot cherished her community and friendships. Her dedication to these groups reflected her unwavering commitment to support others and make a difference.
Preceded in death by her loving husband James Fahey, daughter Diane Fahey, parents Barney and Frances Adcox, sister Mary Smith (Robert), and brother-in-law Roxy Rieck (Nancy), she is now reunited with those she loved dearly.
She leaves behind a legacy of love in her surviving family: her daughter Pat Forbes, sister Nancy Rieck, granddaughter Laura Sanders (Jonathan, Ashlyn and Silver), her niece Roxanne Baldwin, Nephews; Robbie and Tom Smith, and a host of cherished family and friends who will carry forward her memory and spirit.
In honoring her wishes and in her memory do a kind deed for others. Dot’s generosity, and boundless love will forever live on in the hearts of those she touched. Her legacy reminds us all to cherish our loved ones and to give selflessly, just as she did throughout her life.
