Nathaniel D. Wharton, affectionately known as Nate, passed away peacefully in his sleep, surrounded by his devoted wife, his son, and his dear friend, Wanda. Though our hearts are heavy with grief, we find comfort knowing that he departed peacefully and was welcomed into the loving arms of God, where he now rests in eternal peace.
Born on November 11, 1951, in Columbus, Ohio, Nathaniel lived a life defined by faith, love, family, service, and unwavering character. He was the son of Nathaniel D. Wharton Sr. and Norma Jean Wharton, whose love and guidance helped shape the man he became. The values they instilled in him remained with him throughout his life and became part of the legacy he passes down to his own family. He was preceded in death by his beloved son, Najee Wharton, and his brothers, Tony Wharton, Kevin Wharton, and David Wharton. Their passing left an everlasting ache in his heart, but he carried their memories and the love they shared with him throughout his life. Today, we find comfort in the thought that he is reunited with those he loved and lost, resting together in God’s eternal care.
On April 6, 1972, Nathaniel married the love of his life, Kay K. Harper, in Fentress, Virginia. For 54 beautiful years, they walked through life side by side, building a marriage rooted in love, faith, devotion, and unwavering commitment. Together, they were blessed with two beautiful children and created a home filled with laughter, cherished memories, countless blessings, and the enduring grace of God.
He leaves to cherish his memory his beloved wife, Kay K. Wharton; his son, Najeeb Wharton; and his siblings, Colosante Wharton, Sheryl Wharton, Rhonda Wharton, Linda Rogers-Ison, Tawana Wharton, Eric Wharton, and Reggie Wharton. His family was among his greatest blessings, and his love and teachings will continue to live through them.
Nathaniel proudly served his country in the United States Marine Corps for 22 years, from 1969 to 1992, retiring as a Master Sergeant (E-8). His service included six years at Camp Foster in Okinawa, Japan, and eight years at Camp Lejeune in Jacksonville, North Carolina. Among his military accomplishments, he earned the Rifle Badge as a Sharpshooter three times and as a Marksman seven times. His decorations included the Vietnam Service Medal with three Bronze Stars, the Republic of Vietnam Meritorious Unit Citation, and the Southwest Asia Service Medal with two Bronze Stars for his service during Operation Desert Storm.
Following his military career, Nathaniel continued serving others as a Security Officer at NSA Northwest Annex for four years. As a Lead Officer, he was respected for his professionalism, integrity, and dedication and was especially admired for mentoring young security officers and sharing his knowledge and experience.
His commitment to service continued through his active membership with Disabled American Veterans (DAV) Chapter 34 in Williamsburg, Virginia. He proudly supported fellow veterans, advocated for their rights and benefits, and helped strengthen the community and connection among those who had served.
Nathaniel was a man of deep conviction, strong work ethic, integrity, compassion, and unwavering moral character. He was a devoted husband, father, mentor, and role model who believed in working hard, doing what was right, and treating others with dignity and respect. His greatest legacy was not only in his military accomplishments and years of service, but in the lives he touched, the people he mentored, and the family he loved.
Outside of his service and career, Nathaniel found great peace in the outdoors. He was an avid fisherman who loved being on the water and took great pride in caring for his yard, tending to his grass, plants, and vegetables. He found joy in the simple blessings of nature and the satisfaction of working with his hands. His life was a blessing. His memory is a treasure. His love will remain forever. And his legacy will live on through all who were blessed to know him.
Rest peacefully, Dad. Your work here is done. Your service was honorable, your love was immeasurable, and your legacy will live forever in the hearts of those who loved you.
